03 10 / 2018

To Anon that share her point of view.
I fully understand your about that comment seeker .who actually was me.I didn’t mean with that view that you are saying.
Like Kaiser i was abused /raped more than once by men and women.Because of that i cannot have babies.
Fortunately i had a great institution who helped me and still help me today everyday.
I told my story and continue to tell my story in group support.Everyone who have being throw a situation like this reacts differently. I lost many things in that period of time but did not lost my opinion.
My pity comments is i (in my opinion)i personally don’t like to share my story with in my “work place” like Kaiser and have comments i feel sorry for you .I had that experience and the look for people look at and feel sorry for you everyday and looks at you and remember the story and cried (like i say is my experience).
Like Kaiser i don’t feel happy with this Kavanaugh and Ford situation and others stories But i don’t see EVERYTHING BLACK AND WHITE.
In my opinion Kaiser bravely told her story like others who aren’t heard.The difference is CB is not victim support site and don’t have the skills and the education and professionaly to help.Like me and others she remember by personally experience what going through .
Kaiser was interesting site well write site but in couple months had being bullying people harshly and only her opinion counts only and that is not fare.Blocking moderation comments was created to inappropiate language (like my pity comment ,whore ,bitch and others) .
The way she present her story and previous story was like she giving justification why she acts and blocked comments that what she does.
I truly apologize this situation and comment.I truly apologize to @bannedfromcelebitchy.i will be always responsible by my actions.i fully support and respect if want block me and do not and keep contact.
I TRULY RESPECT THE VICTIMS AND HISTORY.BUT EVERYONE DEAL DIFFERENTLY ITS 11 YEARS SINCE IT HAPPENS IN MY.I LIVED BY THE DAY.I WAKE AND GO TO SLEEP EVERYDAY WITH THIS SITUATION.

I AM TRULY TO ALL OF YOU.IF DON’T BELIEVE THAT IS FINE.💓

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I hear you. I don’t necessarily agree with everything you say. I think a part of the confusion is that it was Celebitchy (the site owner) who posted her assault story, not Kaiser. Even though it is mostly Kaiser who writes for that site, and it is Kaiser who moderates and demonstrates hypocrisy at every turn. Though, Celebitchy, as the site owner is ultimately responsible for what goes on there as well.

You also make a good point that they are not professionals, and should be very careful about how they approach such sensitive subjects.

Ultimately, what I wish for everyone who has been through such a terrible experience  is to be able to share their hurt and let go of it, and heal. It is a hard road, and it is different for everyone. HUGS.

02 10 / 2018

I am fully aware that the Celebitchy website is a buisness, after all. A buisness owned by a woman. There obviously will be advertisements, she doesn’t owe me anything. I’ve been a reader of that site since its beginning. No ads back then.

I am also aware of Kaiser-the toad being a bully. As a commenter, she used to engage in unnecessary arguments all day, every day. She was very vulgar, too. Weird obsession with Michael Fassbender’s “dong”. So when the fangirl became the site’s head writer, things changed rapidly. The readership increased and improved, because she focussed on Kate Middleton. CB was one of the few websites which didn’t indulge in sycophancy which was probably refreshing for its new audience. (Later, it evolved into full on hate and obsession) Kaiser cleverly chose her subjects. From just another celeb gossip site, it now focussed on issues that its readership face: domestic violence, molestation, assault. For a young girl like me, it was a safe space.

I got molested by a member of my school staff. I cried for days, didn’t sleep properly, and i was terrified. After sharing my story on CB, i was encouraged by a commenter to seek help. I told my parents. He got fired. My school headmistress listened, and believed me.

As far as i know, CB is, and as of yet, continues to be a safe space for women wanting to share their stories. Without men cyber bullying/threatening them, or other women calling them “Pity comment” seekers. But the rate with which Kaiser is banning and silencing - that would eventually change.

CB isn’t a charity, either. Like every business, hypocrisy is a policy they all follow. But, It is the very few women in the comment section which matter. If/when they get banned, I’d stop reading that site.

Kaiser was clever enough to attract an impressive readership, but too dumb to sustain it. I doubt her current dedicated minions read your page. Policing Kate sugars, and blessing Meghan devotees keeps them pretty busy. Quite entertaining to watch.

I am not a Kaiser fan, I enjoy it when you people call her out. She is an unhinged bully toad. But I felt offended by “Looking for pity comments” ask. Katie is very brave, and that bravery needs to celebrated rather than questioned.

I read and follow you, too. Thanks for creating this Tumblr page. I bet Kaiser reads it, too. I was banned for writing a nice comment on a Taylor Swift article. Oh well. CB is following the daily Mail model of business. Selling hate, and creating false narratives. When applied to celebrities, I couldn’t care less. In 1% -ers universe, we don’t exist.

Sorry for writing you an essay, please don’t ban me:)

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I am very happy you found support and help. Lots of love and hugs for you . You are right, there are some very good people who pass through that site. Too bad CB cannot keep them, and even bans some on purpose.  

I would never ban you. I haven’t banned anyone, actually. This thought didn’t even cross my mind. I am not the one to shut down any opinion, and I actually agree with what your wrote. Again, lots of love. It is very sad that so many women are still targeted, assaulted and are taken advantage of. But I truly believe that with the #MeToo movement the tide finally started  to turn. 

And what is more, because you were so brave and spoke up, you probably saved other girls at your school from going through the same.You might not think you are a hero, but you are.

17 9 / 2018

Compare, if can stomach it, the Meghan and Kate articles today. 150 ish comments each. Meghan’s are all good and Kate’s are all bad. It would be funny it it wasn’t so obvious. Now I don’t really think either of these inituatives are exactly perfect but come on, please see yourselves people, they are clearly pandering to Meghan.


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Just last week I was so angry when I saw comments judging Kate for not working because she was on maternity leave. It is maternity leave , not vacation! Honestly, we wouldn’t let men get away with ignorant comments like that. But  when it is women doing it, it is OK?!!! 

No, it is not OK. I am in the US, I worked until the day my contractions started, and that is normal in the US. We are treated like livestock here, and that is not OK. And people who don’t see that because it is more important for them to disparage Kate than to defend women’t rights, I don’t have words for them ….

Anyway, the next day I saw that Kate was out with her own charity, and, apparently, was not just lolling about during her maternity leave (Urggghhhh.) I did wonder how the Kate-haters were going to spin that.

14 9 / 2018

I got banned from Celebitchy because I brought up the subject of parental alienation and had felt the story of B. Pitt and A. Jolie on CB was very one sided…and the comments and Kaiser posted often about Pitt being an abusive alcoholic…I had a good friend who was a good Dad and he experience parental alienation and I wanted to point it out…now I am banned. I didnt realize how many have been struck from its comment section for petty reasons. 

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Saying something that can be perceived as even slightly critical of Jolie is not allowed on CB, it is like cursing in church. Simply not done .))) 

13 9 / 2018

I have also been banned by Kaiser MULTIPLE TIMES!  I’ve used up all my personal, professional, and business e-mail addresses.  But half my comments were deleted anyway, even before I was banned.

Anyway, I know Kaiser has mentioned multiple times that she is half Indian, but she’s never said what the other half is?  I’m guessing she must be African American based on how if you don’t gush about other AA celebrities you will be banned or your comment deleted.  I’m guessing she’s also overweight, due to all her cries for body positivity and how we need more “real” and “average” women to be models and movie stars.

I’m guessing her demographic is exactly like her.  Any woman who is thin is accused of having an eating disorder, white women are consistently referred to as “beckies” by both Kaiser and her commenters, ad the term “whitesplaining” is used all to often.

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According to what Kaiser posted herself her father is Indian and her mother is white. My guess is that her parents are divorced and she was raised by her mother, because she just doesn’t show the knowledge of familiarity of Indian or Indian culture, or should I say cultures, since there are so many. 

In regards to African Americans, she courts this demographic for her site, but multiple times she showed not to have true interest or understanding of the topic, and every time she was called out for it, she responded by banning people or deleting whole chains of comments.

11 9 / 2018

I just got banned because I didn’t praise Serena Williams in the post about her yesterday. Today there’s another post where comments are heavily moderated and most comments are agreeing with Serena, and Kaiser actually thanked one poster for telling others they’re not real tennis fans for having a different opinion. LMAO Kaiser is so biased and she’s not even ashamed of it. That website has truly gone to the pits. 

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That Serena Williams post is a such trainwreck. Serena behaved like a spoiled diva, and instead of just admitting it and moving on people are trying to justify it. Sure, there could be multiple reasons that she lost it, but the fact remains that she did, in a professional setting. Most of us, if we behaved like Serena, would be out of work, regardless of our race, color or sex. Nobody behaves like that in my office.

On top of it, you have to realize that foreigners have very little understanding of the US racial dynamics, and the other player got caught in the cross-fire, through no fault of her own. And she is a woman of color too! And from a country notorious for sexism. Japan is far more sexist than the US. But Celebitchy posters don’t care about that. They feel they have to protect Serena at all costs.

21 8 / 2018

Wow they really like to go the ageist route when it comes to Madonna. I heard old while lady, hag, has-been, comments about her puffy face. Dang, the woman is 60 and in the worst industry that scrutinizes a woman’s appearance. Kaiser really doesn’t get the pressure of being in the public eye as opposed to sitting at home writing blog posts in sweatpants dragging women who achieved 100x what she has for stupid crap like fashion and hair choices.
Madonna was there as a fan of Aretha Franklin, so told her story from an inspired fan’s perspective. She didn’t break into a rendition of RESPECT or anything. And if you were outraged, blame MTV who chose her to do it. But don’t make awful ageist comments about her appearance and act like Madonna never did anything worth a damn.
I’m amazed these women who support women, these woke feminists are so ageist.
Also they seem to wait for a way the narrative is going to go in the comments to chime in, because days ago they were calling Madonna an icon. Depending on the day and the outrage about cultural appropriation, Madonna is either a washed up old hag or a pop icon. Ridiculous.

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My first reaction was -  why Madonna? I mean, really, they could not find a respect black musician to do it? I have absolutely nothing against Madonna, but it just didn’t make any sense, even on the surface. But it is not Madonna’s fault, you are right about that. This decision is on MTV.

I also noticed that when CB commenters don’t like someone, they attack the person’s looks, even though they know better than that. I remember reading something really nasty about Ivanka’s looks a few days ago.And I thought - , really, is that is what important? It is so petty. Plus, what about people who resemble Ivanka’s looks? Her look is not that uncommon in Eastern Europe. Are we going to call all those women “strange looking” too, just because they look like Ivanka?

And, triple yes to the groupthink observation. Kaiser herself is like that. Half of the time she doesn’t know what to think on issues and takes lead from people she thinks are “woke”. Either people on other sites or on CB. On top of it the merciless moderating out of people with any kind of independent opinions also naturally leads to groupthink.

18 7 / 2018

At this point, the posters asking where LAK is are trolling, right?  Either she was banned, or she’s sick of what Celebitchy has devolved to - dancing to egomaniac Kaiser’s tune.

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LAK was probably banned.  She probably posted something against the party line. But my guess is that some of the posters on CB, who always agree with Kaiser, genuinely don’t know what goes on behind the scenes. It is sort of like being in a cult.

13 7 / 2018

Meghan would hate to be loved by the ladies of CB I feel. 1. They treat her as a object or just a barbie. 

2. They try to compare her to another woman to up her and create imaginary beefs.Meghan seems like a really nice woman, smart, she’d quickly see that for what it is, sexism and fakenessm

3. They hate. I don’t think Meg would want toxic ppl such as Nic919 & Notasugarhere etc. To be her biggest fan. Especially if it’s at the expense of hate for another human being they don’t even know.

Kaiser also needs to realize that no one reads her articles they go right to the comments to fight and bicker. Also it seems like most of the commenters don’t like Kaiser, they just come to chat with each other

 They rarely care about Kaiser’s opinion on anything.

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Kaiser has no opinion on anything or anybody ( other than Kate and her internet boyfriends’s girlfriends, lol ). She waits for  “woke” people to tell her what she is supposed to think. Her drift changes in accordance with opinions of the posters.

15 6 / 2018

Anyone feel uncomfortable about the way they talk about Meghan? I feel like they treat her like a thing, or a child, but not a grown ass woman.

Something about it makes me very uncomfortable. Celebitchy as a whole makes me uncomfortable. 

Everything is so hallow and for show. I feel like they treat all the royal family women like children. They don’t do that to the men.

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My take on it is that they create a fantasy version of every celebrity, a cartoon. Ones they don’t like are villains and the ones they like are saints. Both versions are extreme and far from reality.