27 10 / 2018

Anonymous asked: Meghan wore a ten grand dress and no one mentioned the cost

The cost of that tour is going to be outrageous. And what does Australia get out of it?

20 10 / 2018

sailorlf asked: why is it that in a post yesterday about the royal Kate, who wore the comments are about how she is rapidly aging with the general thread agreeing that its due to her cigarette smoking, with comments like "I blame too much sun, cigarettes and small children." On the same page, Meghan is praised again for being professional and polished with comments like "Her work is much more important and should really overwhelm whatever she chooses to wear. " Just interesting.

The whole discussion about Kate (or any other woman for that matter) looking older is nonsense. On one hand, they judge women for having plastic surgery to look younger or prettier, on the other hand they judge women for looking older. They can’t help themselves, they are hypocrites.

08 10 / 2018

Celebitchy has a been an absolute dumpster fire last few days. Where do I even start. First Celebitchy regulars had to eat crow when Emily R. and Amy Schumer went out to protest Kavanaugh nomination  and actually got arrested, while what did holier than you Celebitchy regulars do? Nothing. Kitten commented something along the lines that she always had a lot of snark for those two women, but what they did was good. Really, Kitten? You think they care about your “snark”. They are out there living their lives and doing their thing and not caring about your snark at all. They are bigger women than you are. They don’t get off on putting other women down.

Today’s Taylor Siwft post went pretty much the same way. Many posters twisting themselves into pretzels to avoid owning up their irrational hatred for Taylor. She gets more criticism than MAGA Kanye, despite everything good that she has done.

Then there was Kaiser slut shaming Barbara Bush for marrying too soon, in her opinion. Thankfully most posters didn’t agree with Kaiser.

And then to top it of the Keira and Kate post where majority of commenters went out of their way to miss the point Keira was making about patriarchy and the crazy expectations for women, and instead talked about their “different” experiences. If you judge by Celebitchy comments, apparently it is completely normal for a woman to be dressed up for a photo call hours after birth. Well, I don’t care how different they are, I felt like I was hit by a truck, and I had one of those “easy” births. These women internalized patriarchy to such extent, they don’t even realize what is normal and what is not normal anymore.Thankfully there were some reasonable commenters on that thread as well, I especially liked the one who said that we never get to see “the other side” of women’t choices. We see women dressed up and made up and we should respect that as their choice, but why don’t we see women in the public eye making another choice? That is patriarchy for you. 

I almost forgot, they also think Susan Sarandon who supports Bernie Sanders, is worse than Trump. Wow, just wow. For a site which claims to support women they really do have irrational levels of hate for some women.

08 10 / 2018

Anonymous asked: One question I have been wondering about for a while now: Is it likely that sites such as celebitchy or also Lainey get paid by a celeb's PR so that they start posting always positively about them. I just wonder because some celebs always always get praised. Even when posting about negative stories Kaiser is apologetic. Is this simple favoritism or is there a financial interest.

I am pretty sure Celebitchy is paid by Kardashians. There is absolutely no reason otherwise for Kaiser to write 2 Kardashian stories a day and continue giving passes to Kanye and his MAGA rants.

08 10 / 2018

In reading the stories I notice that all the comments are about seething hatred for Pitt…and then someone writes the following “Ops the comment i was replying to got deleted” so that does show how each comment must be constantly monitored ..erasing all room for dissent. yikes!

03 10 / 2018

To Anon that share her point of view.
I fully understand your about that comment seeker .who actually was me.I didn’t mean with that view that you are saying.
Like Kaiser i was abused /raped more than once by men and women.Because of that i cannot have babies.
Fortunately i had a great institution who helped me and still help me today everyday.
I told my story and continue to tell my story in group support.Everyone who have being throw a situation like this reacts differently. I lost many things in that period of time but did not lost my opinion.
My pity comments is i (in my opinion)i personally don’t like to share my story with in my “work place” like Kaiser and have comments i feel sorry for you .I had that experience and the look for people look at and feel sorry for you everyday and looks at you and remember the story and cried (like i say is my experience).
Like Kaiser i don’t feel happy with this Kavanaugh and Ford situation and others stories But i don’t see EVERYTHING BLACK AND WHITE.
In my opinion Kaiser bravely told her story like others who aren’t heard.The difference is CB is not victim support site and don’t have the skills and the education and professionaly to help.Like me and others she remember by personally experience what going through .
Kaiser was interesting site well write site but in couple months had being bullying people harshly and only her opinion counts only and that is not fare.Blocking moderation comments was created to inappropiate language (like my pity comment ,whore ,bitch and others) .
The way she present her story and previous story was like she giving justification why she acts and blocked comments that what she does.
I truly apologize this situation and comment.I truly apologize to @bannedfromcelebitchy.i will be always responsible by my actions.i fully support and respect if want block me and do not and keep contact.
I TRULY RESPECT THE VICTIMS AND HISTORY.BUT EVERYONE DEAL DIFFERENTLY ITS 11 YEARS SINCE IT HAPPENS IN MY.I LIVED BY THE DAY.I WAKE AND GO TO SLEEP EVERYDAY WITH THIS SITUATION.

I AM TRULY TO ALL OF YOU.IF DON’T BELIEVE THAT IS FINE.💓

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I hear you. I don’t necessarily agree with everything you say. I think a part of the confusion is that it was Celebitchy (the site owner) who posted her assault story, not Kaiser. Even though it is mostly Kaiser who writes for that site, and it is Kaiser who moderates and demonstrates hypocrisy at every turn. Though, Celebitchy, as the site owner is ultimately responsible for what goes on there as well.

You also make a good point that they are not professionals, and should be very careful about how they approach such sensitive subjects.

Ultimately, what I wish for everyone who has been through such a terrible experience  is to be able to share their hurt and let go of it, and heal. It is a hard road, and it is different for everyone. HUGS.

02 10 / 2018

I am fully aware that the Celebitchy website is a buisness, after all. A buisness owned by a woman. There obviously will be advertisements, she doesn’t owe me anything. I’ve been a reader of that site since its beginning. No ads back then.

I am also aware of Kaiser-the toad being a bully. As a commenter, she used to engage in unnecessary arguments all day, every day. She was very vulgar, too. Weird obsession with Michael Fassbender’s “dong”. So when the fangirl became the site’s head writer, things changed rapidly. The readership increased and improved, because she focussed on Kate Middleton. CB was one of the few websites which didn’t indulge in sycophancy which was probably refreshing for its new audience. (Later, it evolved into full on hate and obsession) Kaiser cleverly chose her subjects. From just another celeb gossip site, it now focussed on issues that its readership face: domestic violence, molestation, assault. For a young girl like me, it was a safe space.

I got molested by a member of my school staff. I cried for days, didn’t sleep properly, and i was terrified. After sharing my story on CB, i was encouraged by a commenter to seek help. I told my parents. He got fired. My school headmistress listened, and believed me.

As far as i know, CB is, and as of yet, continues to be a safe space for women wanting to share their stories. Without men cyber bullying/threatening them, or other women calling them “Pity comment” seekers. But the rate with which Kaiser is banning and silencing - that would eventually change.

CB isn’t a charity, either. Like every business, hypocrisy is a policy they all follow. But, It is the very few women in the comment section which matter. If/when they get banned, I’d stop reading that site.

Kaiser was clever enough to attract an impressive readership, but too dumb to sustain it. I doubt her current dedicated minions read your page. Policing Kate sugars, and blessing Meghan devotees keeps them pretty busy. Quite entertaining to watch.

I am not a Kaiser fan, I enjoy it when you people call her out. She is an unhinged bully toad. But I felt offended by “Looking for pity comments” ask. Katie is very brave, and that bravery needs to celebrated rather than questioned.

I read and follow you, too. Thanks for creating this Tumblr page. I bet Kaiser reads it, too. I was banned for writing a nice comment on a Taylor Swift article. Oh well. CB is following the daily Mail model of business. Selling hate, and creating false narratives. When applied to celebrities, I couldn’t care less. In 1% -ers universe, we don’t exist.

Sorry for writing you an essay, please don’t ban me:)

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I am very happy you found support and help. Lots of love and hugs for you . You are right, there are some very good people who pass through that site. Too bad CB cannot keep them, and even bans some on purpose.  

I would never ban you. I haven’t banned anyone, actually. This thought didn’t even cross my mind. I am not the one to shut down any opinion, and I actually agree with what your wrote. Again, lots of love. It is very sad that so many women are still targeted, assaulted and are taken advantage of. But I truly believe that with the #MeToo movement the tide finally started  to turn. 

And what is more, because you were so brave and spoke up, you probably saved other girls at your school from going through the same.You might not think you are a hero, but you are.

01 10 / 2018

Anonymous asked: CBer's are obviously reading this site. Gals, 1) if you don't want to look "hysterical", maybe you shouldn't compare Kavanaugh to Ted Bundy unless there are corpses found. 2) you really should restructure the site as a support for sexual/physical/emotional abuse survivors and just have "gossip" as a sub-forum. Do better by being honest about it.

For starters, they should stop moderating everybody who doesn’t follow the party line. Then they wouldn’t have to come here in order to find out what people really think. What does this remind me of? Ah, that is right, the Soviet Union and the Iron Curtain.

29 9 / 2018

strangeflapoperastudent asked: "Pity victim comments". How very disgusting of OP. The site really helped me at one time. Women of celebitchy used to share their stories of sexual abuse, and violence long before it became a powerful metoo trend. I wrote and shared my own, and i got sympathy and support from complete strangers on celebitchy. For me, the site was therapeutic, because i could talk about my experiences without any shame. No one is looking for "Pity comments". Apart from "royal"/celeb stories, CB is a great place.

CB is a negative place, and while it provides safe space for people to share their stories  ( if they meet with Kaiser’s approval), then  many  of the same people then turn around and slam other posters and other female celebrities on other posts. Is that healthy? It cannot be a great place when it is so hypocritical.

Don’t forget that Celebitchy is a commercial place and they are after clicks. They provide a safe place for women to share their stories, and that is good. But they don’t do it out of goodness of their hearts, they are selling you advertisement at the same time, and your daily serving of Kardashians, and Kate- and Taylor Swift hate, and a few other things. It is not a wholesome place, and what bothers me. It purposely attracts vulnerable people to make money on them .

And then they also pick and choose which stories are OK to share, and which they are going to block because they don’t conform to Kaiser’s views of the moment.

28 9 / 2018

jecajo asked: Celebitchy today told her story about rape. She need pitty victim comments.

I don’t know if she wanted pity, or she is just finally ready to admit to herself what happened to her. Anyway, I am not going to judge her for it. No matter what her motivation is, the women who dealt with assault need to be supported, whether we like them or not.

Having said that, I also think Celebitchy is a site which intentionally attracts vulnerable and traumatized people, but not to help them, but for clicks and to make money off them, And THAT I find disgusting. They started as a gossip site and now they turned into a site which takes advantage of people. They also figured out that they could do this with people who are strongly anti-Trump. They give them an emotional outlet, and in exchange they get clicks. But Celebitchy is not  a healthy place for that, either. It feeds negativity, instead of doing something constructive.