13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: If you are white you are no longer allowed to have an opinion on there anymore

Yes, absolutely. On the other hand,  I read a really good post by Josie on this topic on Lianna and it helped me a lot to understand why so many POCs react negatively when white people participate in the race discussions. 

She says “ For white people, talking about race is uncomfortable. For people of color, it’s a necessity. “ This sentence made me understand.

At the end of the day, for many white people race relations is an intellectual discussion, where we want to analyze all sides of the issue so that we can relate it to our own experiences. But for POCs it is an every day struggle and to them the urgency of the issue is much greater and their patience has worn thin. They have no patience for analyzing, relating and translating it into experiences whites can relate to.

But I don’t see any other way than continuing to talk to each other. In the end, only through talking we’ll reach better understanding. Shutting down the ability of people to talk is counterproductive because it prevents us from forming that mutual understanding.

13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: They make me laugh with there obsession with Meghan markle how she's so much better than kate and is going to somehow save the monarchy she's a c list actress who has done a couple of speeches not mother Theresa the double standards annoy me kate dress blows up they critize the he'll out of her meghan does sex scenes in her underwear is fine because that'd her jobg

True. It reminds me of the days people were wanting Prince William to be named the heir instead of his father. He looked so much like Diana, people idealized him. Something similar is happening with Markle. People project their expectations on her. But I think she is going to be a disappointment. She is going into the highly scripted and restrictive life of a a royal with her eyes wide open. She is fully prepared to sacrifice her freedom for a status.

13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: Did You Notice They Didnt Mention That Melania Won Her Libel Suit Against The Daily Mail When They Were Implying she was a hooker and celebitchy got on board

Yes, I noticed it too. And isn’t it ironic that they were slut shaming the woman they don’t like while with the women they like they always say that slut  shaming is anti-feminist. 

13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: I've been a daily Celebitchy reader for many years. I never comment so I haven't been banned but have become so disgusted with all the political posts I've thought of dropping it. Whenever there is any celebrity gossip, it's something I already read about yesterday. I've long thought that the writers spend the day trolling other various celeb gossip sites, then rewrite the stories with their own (usually negative) spin. The site has gone downhill in a major way, was happy to find you.

13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: Just reading back on your blog and have to say that the Anonymous poster on 4/26/17 sounds very much like Lyan posting on Liana's site. This dude is unhinged, no? Scary.

You know, you are probably right. It does sound like Lyan. He/she is so over the top.

13 7 / 2017

Anonymous asked: I found your site a few months ago while exploring the internet for an explanation as to why Celebitchy had become so intolerable in the last year. I read your comments and found a great deal of common sense. I have gone back to Celebitchy several times to verify many of the statements you, and others on the site, have made and found them all to be true. It is quite sad that many women find an ear with Kaiser to spew such remarkably hateful rhetoric. Thank you for creating this forum.

21 6 / 2017

Anonymous asked: I officially left CB around the time Trump won the election but had already been making a conscious effort to stay away from the site quite a while before that. The environment is toxic and rabid. After Trump won it went nuclear. They (Kaiser and most of the commenters) don't care about any other opinion other than their own hate. Truth and facts also don't matter and oh and forget suggesting people need to learn and understand why others may have for voted trump so maybe we could fix the issue

The political articles there are the worst. No discussion of what might’ve gone wrong and how the country could be improved is allowed. The posters turn on anyone daring question the official Democrats party line and start blaming that person for everything that is wrong under the sun.

18 6 / 2017

Anonymous asked: They're really going to town on Elizabeth Banks for some reason. Is she one of their hate objects?

I am not sure. I think it is because of the racial aspect. She is a “white feminist” and it is not good enough for the posters there.

This comment explains it :

“ She didn’t mean Spielberg she’s cast more roles for women. She meant for white women lol this is such white feminism. She dismissed the color purple bc it was a film of women of color. “

And to add to this.  I don’t find Banks likeable myself.But I see the point she is making, albeit she made it very badly and picked a really bad target. If you want to talk about misogyny in Hollywood you shouldn’t be making Spielberg your target, you should be making Spielberg your ally. 

But you know what. Banks might be a “white feminist” and she might not be good enough, but if she is speaking for your cause, maybe hold your horses a bit with criticism. Don’t let the perfect to be the enemy of the good.  

And I think that is exactly the problem with CB. Unless someone is pitch perfect, they get torn to shreds. And you get to the point where nobody is good enough. And that is very negative and soul destroying.

18 6 / 2017

Anonymous asked: Celebitchy is a place of passive agressive woman their the sort of people who claim they are feminists but are actually misogynistic there whole hate against kate campaign has recently going worse when their new idole meghan came along the reason they like her is because they want her to make kate look bad .if you ate not a fan they call you racist bs is getting old

16 6 / 2017

130 comments discussing every minor detail of Kate Middleton’s blazer and capri outfit. It is so strange. I’d understand  if the posters were professional stylists. Then these things could be very interesting and important. But otherwise? It is just bewildering. Most people judge fashion in a passing manner - does it look good overall or not. 

To me she always looks good and presentable. Maybe she is not a fashion icon, but she is inoffensive in her wardrobe choices. You have to look very closely to find something to criticize.